You know the adage ‘never judge a book by its cover?’ Well, sometimes your first thoughts (or in my case feelings towards others) may be scarily accurate. As Maya Angelou succinctly put it, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” In my desire to see the good in people and… Continue reading One For The Books
Tag: Poetry
Lactic Acid Junkie
My name is Assumpta and I am a lactic acid junkie. There, I said it. If I’m honest I probably don’t really fit the profile so that admission is a stretch but it sounds catchier than “I like to do things that raise my heart rate and have an element of danger from time to… Continue reading Lactic Acid Junkie
One Saturday, Three Parties
Last month I went to three parties in one day. This sounds like a lot of movement – and it was. But my difficulty with the word “no” and desire to see friends I hadn’t spent time with in a while won over. Luckily for me, two of the events were only a few miles… Continue reading One Saturday, Three Parties
Nostalgia: The Lake District
Today I miss space and trees, freedom and childhood. I just don't feel like smiling or being peppy right now. It happens sometimes. I thought back to a couple of weeks ago (the beginning of the month) when I went to visit my best friend. She planned some birthday treats for me and one was… Continue reading Nostalgia: The Lake District
Wish List: Birthday Edition
It's my birthday in two days…Yay! Having said that, if not for people reminding me of this fact and asking what I'm doing to celebrate, or enquiring about what I want for my birthday, I probably would have forgotten. I just didn't feel like planning anything. Having said that, one of my friends kindly reminded… Continue reading Wish List: Birthday Edition
Pool Party Pandemonium
Just over a week ago (week ago…) my brother and his friends flew in to have a pool party at my parents’ house. And yes, it certainly was as indulgent as it sounds. Between himself and his friends, they flew in from 6 or 7 different countries if I’m not mistaken? Just for this party… Continue reading Pool Party Pandemonium
Trunkwell Mansion House, Reading
[Side Note: Picture heavy post] In my previous post, (click here if you missed it), I shared a high school friend’s traditional Nigerian wedding with you all. This post is about her white wedding held at Trunkwell Mansion House in Reading as the title of this post suggests. Having been to well over 20 weddings… Continue reading Trunkwell Mansion House, Reading
Wake-Up Call
Last week I went to a traditional Nigerian wedding with some high school friends (the bride also went to our high school). Nigerian weddings…actually Nigerian events in general, are very vibrant and lively affairs, as evidenced in a previous post of mine (read here) and this one was no different. Typically at Nigerian weddings, the… Continue reading Wake-Up Call
Truth Bomb
I read a post earlier today by SouldierGirl that made me smile - please feel free to check it out here so you have a frame of reference. The following line nicely summarised some thoughts that have been sitting with me for a while: The battle that has given me the most wounds is the… Continue reading Truth Bomb